Feeling disconnected and lonely?
How is it that there are so many men, like you, who want to have close buddies to talk with, who want to share their hobbies and passions, or who just want to get a beer, and yet so many of us remain isolated, lonely, and unable to make those connections happen?
The answer is shame.
Guilt is what you feel when you think you’ve done something wrong. Shame is what you experience when you think there’s something wrong with you. It’s shame that keeps you from connecting with other men. And it’s their shame that keeps them isolated, as well.
On some level, you think there’s something wrong with you, something that might keep other men from wanting to know you. If they really knew you, so the shameful thought process continues, they wouldn’t like you. Is that what you think? A lot of men do.
What you learn when you connect with other men is that we have so much more in common than you would have ever believed. We all experience fear, doubt, pain, inadequacy, loneliness, depression, and the list goes on. Really, you’re not so unique!
Find out how normal you really are. When you have the courage to connect with a men’s coach or men’s group, you’ll see your options growing, and your loneliness disappearing. Let BetterMen Coaching help you to create your circle of trusted friends.
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