Relationship Coaching for Men

Relationship Coaching

How I Got Here

I’m Wayne M. Levine. For many men, it’s often been the pressure they’ve felt from their significant other regarding that primary relationship that ultimately motivated them to contact me for relationship coaching.

As we know, most men are reluctant to ask for help. It usually requires them to hit (or come very close to hitting) bottom before they’re motivated to seek guidance.

Start Your Journey

And so, we talk about their relationships. Some men lack fundamental relationship skills. (See my book, Hold On to Your N.U.T.s—The Relationship Manual for Men). Others are dealing with much more nuanced issues, like feeling lost and lonely in their own marriages.

I also meet with men who are in relationships with mentally ill partners. Some men even reach out when they’re being emotionally and physically abused.

Though their relationships are what brought them to this work, they soon learn that the work is much more about themselves as individuals.

Relationship coaching for men isn’t always an easy process. Sometimes we need to put out fires and find fast solutions. We can do that, and we often will, in our coaching sessions. But long term solutions come once we understand our shortcomings, wants, and needs. Moreover, we need to address the psychological obstacles we face when pursuing the things we want.

Longterm committed relationships are an interesting experiment. They give us the opportunity to really see who we are…if we’re willing to do that work. Men who live on their own don’t deal with the issues those of us who are in relationships can experience. Consequently, these men, who are on their own, will likely not see personal growth as a priority. Why? Because they’re not presented with any relational conflicts.

But for the rest of us, our relationships will offer us a unique opportunity. We can examine how being in a relationship changes us, and I think that’s a good thing. And my experience has shown that relationship coaching for men is truly a life-long endeavor.

How to Move Forward

Free Consult

  • 01

    Thoroughly explore this site.

  • 02

    If inspired, either request a free consult or dive in with your first session.

  • 03

    Trust your intuition and make your choice to work with me, if that feels right.

  • 04

    Begin your journey to discover, change, grow and become the man you want to be.

Are you ready to turn
your relationship around?

If what you’ve learned here sounds good to you, and you’d like to take the next step in dramatically improving your relationship, then schedule a 90-minute initial session or free consultation.

Other Ways Wayne Helps

One-on-One Coaching

01

Other Ways Wayne Helps

Divorce Coaching

02

Other Ways Wayne Helps

Crisis Coaching

03

Other Ways Wayne Helps

Spiritual Coaching

04

Other Ways Wayne Helps

Couples Coaching

05

Other Ways Wayne Helps

Men's Groups

06

Kind Words from the Men

Wayne Levine is quite an impressive coach.

He is insightful, brilliant, and also shoots straight from the hip. He has helped me through not just a few jams of my own making. My favorite part of his counsel is that it really helps call me on my own bullshit, helps me see where I am part of the problem, ...

-Eric (Oregon)
Wayne is a knowledgeable and real guy who offers a sympathetic ear, but also a clear voice.

He doesn’t sit back on a couch and lob questions in some kind of one-sided way. Instead, you can have a real conversation with him, as I have for almost two years now in dealing with issues in my life. No doubt, Wayne listens well and knows his stuff, but he a...

-Adam (Minnesota)
Wayne has been helpful in getting me out of my head...

… when it comes to how I look at the dynamics of my own life, relationships, and work. Sometimes men can perceive life situations as insurmountable problems. I sure do. We need someone intuitive and wise to help us see the more helpful and expansive perspe...

-Jeff (Tennessee)
I came to find Wayne's practice at a time of extreme distress in my life.

With his help and guidance, I was able to move through that time positively and set myself up for a great life post crisis. Ten years later, I am still working with Wayne because his business adds value to my life even when I am not in crisis. Working with Wayne...

-Allen (Washington)
If you’re going to pay to talk to someone...

…(which is worth every damn penny when it is someone like Wayne) you want to make sure the person is adept at understanding what you need in the given moment to really help shift your mindset and attitude for the better. Wayne does this so well. He gets yo...

- Dilan (Texas)
I came to Wayne in 2010, a completely broken man.

With Wayne’s leadership, guidance, and sharing his real-life experiences, he’s helped me make my life better. I wouldn’t be this far along in my personal and business life if it wasn’t for the work that was encouraged by Wayne and the men...

-Jas (California)
Working with Wayne has been a game-changer in my life.

I credit him with helping me achieve multiple breakthroughs over my years of consistently working with him. My wife and family agree that my on-going work with Wayne has made me a better man. If you need to make a change or move the ball in your relationships, w...

-Ty (Spain)
Working with Wayne has given me the tools to shift from being stuck in knee-jerk reactions...

… to what I saw as external circumstances, to being able to catch myself in the moment and gain insight into my internal dynamics. The ability to recognize, trust, and sit with my gut feelings has been a very freeing experience. As Wayne puts it, “it...

-Rob (Tennessee)
Wayne's knowledge and the BetterMen tools are an indispensable part of my daily life.

They help me show up as the man I want to be and guide me through life’s peaks and valleys. Every man should know these ideas and use these tools, period.

-Todd (California)
Wayne Levine is quite an impressive coach.

He is insightful, brilliant, and also shoots straight from the hip. He has helped me through not just a few jams of my own making. My favorite part of his counsel is that it really helps call me on my own bullshit, helps me see where I am part of the problem, and it is always said in a way that helps me see and change those things that maybe served me as a child, but that are no longer needed. He’s part mentor, part friend, with just a sprinkle of ornery to help get under my skin when I need it.  It should also be highlighted: he’s one of the smartest people I’ve ever had the pleasure of getting to know.

-Eric (Oregon)
Wayne is a knowledgeable and real guy who offers a sympathetic ear, but also a clear voice.

He doesn’t sit back on a couch and lob questions in some kind of one-sided way. Instead, you can have a real conversation with him, as I have for almost two years now in dealing with issues in my life. No doubt, Wayne listens well and knows his stuff, but he also gives it to you straight—or at least helps you cut through your own crap and get clarity about what matters to you. Wayne has provided invaluable support and practical advice on my journey to becoming a better man.

-Adam (Minnesota)
Wayne has been helpful in getting me out of my head...

… when it comes to how I look at the dynamics of my own life, relationships, and work. Sometimes men can perceive life situations as insurmountable problems. I sure do. We need someone intuitive and wise to help us see the more helpful and expansive perspectives available to us. Wayne makes it simple, because it is quite simple. But it takes help to realize that! Thanks, Wayne.

-Jeff (Tennessee)
I came to find Wayne's practice at a time of extreme distress in my life.

With his help and guidance, I was able to move through that time positively and set myself up for a great life post crisis. Ten years later, I am still working with Wayne because his business adds value to my life even when I am not in crisis. Working with Wayne was one of the best decisions I made in the past ten years. I would not be where I am today without his help. 

-Allen (Washington)
If you’re going to pay to talk to someone...

…(which is worth every damn penny when it is someone like Wayne) you want to make sure the person is adept at understanding what you need in the given moment to really help shift your mindset and attitude for the better. Wayne does this so well. He gets you. And he’s onto it sometimes before you even say it, which cuts the fluff and saves your valuable time with him. Experienced. Wise. Kind. Present. No nonsense and loving. What’s not to like in having someone like that be your coach? Wayne is not your flashy “influencer” coach and therapist. He is the real deal. That’s who you want to talk to if you want to improve your life, relationships, and professional path. He’s got no agenda except to faithfully support you.

- Dilan (Texas)
I came to Wayne in 2010, a completely broken man.

With Wayne’s leadership, guidance, and sharing his real-life experiences, he’s helped me make my life better. I wouldn’t be this far along in my personal and business life if it wasn’t for the work that was encouraged by Wayne and the men of the BetterMen community. Wayne, simply put, I love you. My family and friends all love you because you showed me how to be a better husband, father, brother, and son. You showed me a path of spirituality. Today, I choose to live a life with gratitude, compassion, and self-care. Thank you, my brother.

-Jas (California)
Working with Wayne has been a game-changer in my life.

I credit him with helping me achieve multiple breakthroughs over my years of consistently working with him. My wife and family agree that my on-going work with Wayne has made me a better man. If you need to make a change or move the ball in your relationships, work, or life, don’t hesitate, don’t delay, don’t put off what will start your revolution.

-Ty (Spain)
Working with Wayne has given me the tools to shift from being stuck in knee-jerk reactions...

… to what I saw as external circumstances, to being able to catch myself in the moment and gain insight into my internal dynamics. The ability to recognize, trust, and sit with my gut feelings has been a very freeing experience. As Wayne puts it, “it’s an inside job.”

-Rob (Tennessee)
Wayne's knowledge and the BetterMen tools are an indispensable part of my daily life.

They help me show up as the man I want to be and guide me through life’s peaks and valleys. Every man should know these ideas and use these tools, period.

-Todd (California)

Relationship Coaching

Frequently Asked Questions