He is insightful, brilliant, and also shoots straight from the hip. He has helped me through not just a few jams of my own making. My favorite part of his counsel is that it really helps call me on my own bullshit, helps me see where I am part of the problem, ...
Relationship Coaching for Men
I’m Wayne M. Levine. For many men, it’s often been the pressure they’ve felt from their significant other regarding that primary relationship that ultimately motivated them to contact me for relationship coaching.
As we know, most men are reluctant to ask for help. It usually requires them to hit (or come very close to hitting) bottom before they’re motivated to seek guidance.
And so, we talk about their relationships. Some men lack fundamental relationship skills. (See my book, Hold On to Your N.U.T.s—The Relationship Manual for Men). Others are dealing with much more nuanced issues, like feeling lost and lonely in their own marriages.
I also meet with men who are in relationships with mentally ill partners. Some men even reach out when they’re being emotionally and physically abused.
Though their relationships are what brought them to this work, they soon learn that the work is much more about themselves as individuals.
Relationship coaching for men isn’t always an easy process. Sometimes we need to put out fires and find fast solutions. We can do that, and we often will, in our coaching sessions. But long term solutions come once we understand our shortcomings, wants, and needs. Moreover, we need to address the psychological obstacles we face when pursuing the things we want.
Longterm committed relationships are an interesting experiment. They give us the opportunity to really see who we are…if we’re willing to do that work. Men who live on their own don’t deal with the issues those of us who are in relationships can experience. Consequently, these men, who are on their own, will likely not see personal growth as a priority. Why? Because they’re not presented with any relational conflicts.
But for the rest of us, our relationships will offer us a unique opportunity. We can examine how being in a relationship changes us, and I think that’s a good thing. And my experience has shown that relationship coaching for men is truly a life-long endeavor.
Process
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Thoroughly explore this site.
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If inspired, either request a free consult or dive in with your first session.
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Trust your intuition and make your choice to work with me, if that feels right.
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Begin your journey to discover, change, grow and become the man you want to be.
Are you ready to turn
your relationship around?
My Words of Wisdom
Relationship Coaching