… to what I saw as external circumstances, to being able to catch myself in the moment and gain insight into my internal dynamics. The ability to recognize, trust, and sit with my gut feelings has been a very freeing experience. As Wayne puts it, “it...
One on One Male Life Coach
The question is, how can you transform your current self into the joyful and fulfilled man you want to be? It happens with a conversation. I’m Wayne M. Levine. As a one on one male life coach, I can help you identify potential areas of improvement and offer advice on how to take action in your life.
As a one-on-one male life coach, I’ve built a living on having conversations. That’s the foundation of my one-on-one coaching method: you and I will have a conversation.
At the beginning, you’ll have so much to tell me, you’ll fear that you’re rambling, and you won’t be trusting either of us to help you sort things out. But then, that’ll change. Sometimes, it changes in our first session.
And then the conversation begins to evolve. Over time, you’ll feel more comfortable telling me things you may have never shared before. That trust allows us to go deeper and get clearer. It also enables me to give you the guidance necessary to make the changes you want to see happen in your life.
I wrote in my book (Hold On to Your N.U.T.s—The Relationship Manual for Men) about the father wound; not having a father or not having had the father we needed, wanted, or believed we needed or wanted. This can leave a gaping hole in our emotional bodies and affect our emotional development for the rest of our lives.
Fathering, in this context, doesn’t necessarily mean a biological relationship. Many of us can continue to benefit from the caring, honest feedback of a “dad,” even if that dad isn’t our birth father. Our emotional and energetic bodies don’t make the distinction. When we hear wisdom that resonates with us, we can feel its power. Feeling that, and letting that masculine wisdom settle in, allows us to develop trust with the man offering the wisdom. It also allows each of us men to trust our own inner wisdom.
When you meet with a one on one male life coach, that father energy permeates the work. It allows men to learn lessons they may have never learned from their own fathers. It gives men an opportunity to emulate the “best practices” of other men. And, ultimately, it allows men to gain new perspectives and build better behaviors as they begin to more successfully navigate their relationships, careers, life transitions, and spiritual journeys.
The Process
It’s time for a change. You want to be happy. You want to get on with your life. Something in your life isn’t working and you finally want to fix it. You’re unhappy, angry or frustrated and you’ve sometimes given up on yourself—and others. You believe you’re stuck and there’s nothing you can do to change it.
You’ve tried talking with friends. You’ve tried therapy, seminars, books, and nothing seems to be working—at least not well enough. You may be struggling with your career, or you haven’t been the husband or father you want to be. Now, you’re sick of feeling stuck in your own stuff. You’re tired of watching yourself make the same mistakes again and again as a husband, a father, a businessman, a man.
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As a one on one male life coach, I’ve helped good men become better men for over 25 years. I’ve found what most men need is not a diagnosis, but the support of other good men to help them find the solutions to their problems.
What we men need is guidance, teaching, and the insight of a trusted advisor. We need to be fathered. Let’s face it, if we all had the fathers of our fantasies, we would have received all the wisdom necessary to succeed in our lives. Unfortunately, many of us had dads who lacked the wisdom, the time, or the ability to teach us. Some of our dads weren’t around at all. But that’s no reason to stay stuck.
Working the BetterMen Coaching process will teach you to develop and to have a firm grasp of your N.U.T.s, your Non-negotiable Unalterable Terms. The BetterMen Coaching tools will help you to be successful as a man, in your career, and in your relationships with your partner and children.
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The BetterMen Coaching process is about fathering men. That means you’ll get honest, unapologetic feedback about you in all areas of your life. You’ll get sage advice, the wisdom handed down to me from my mentors.
It’s nice, every now and then, to be mothered. It feels good to have someone make you feel better about the state you’re in. It feels good to crawl up into that warm, comforting place and be held. The problem is, we wake up the next morning with the same problems. Only now, we feel even worse.
You see, we men need to fix things, and that includes our relationships, the one with ourselves and the ones with our women, our children, and the rest of the world.
Together, we’ll help you create a vision of the man you want to be. To achieve that vision, you’ll make commitments and be held accountable to them. Without accountability, you can hide out, lie, numb yourself, indulge your addictions, and otherwise stay stuck. And isn’t that what you’ve been doing for too long now?
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We’ll jump straight into what’s not working. We’ll identify the problems and figure out solutions before you get off the phone. Along the way, you’ll learn about yourself and how you’re not so different from most other men.
You’ll learn the tools needed to have a stronger and happier relationship with yourself, your woman, your kids, your employees and colleagues, your money, spirituality, health, and your ability to experience fun and joy. You’ll develop and be encouraged to maintain a firm grasp of your N.U.T.s—Non-negotiable Unalterable Terms.
You’ll develop trust in me. This trust will eventually enable you to develop more trusting relationships with other men in your life. You see, the goal isn’t to make you dependent upon your relationship with me. The goal is to teach you how to be the man you want to be and to bring that man to all of your relationships, including those with men.
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If you’re ready to make changes in your life, you should expect some immediate results.
They may be subtle. But as you learn more about yourself, and can see how your behaviors affects those close to you, you’ll start to appreciate the power you have to change what’s happening in your life, in your marriage, with your kids, and at work. If you’re consistent, you’ll see changes in yourself and in your life you would have never thought possible.
In other words, you’ll start to become that better man you want to be!
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Are you ready to begin one-on-one coaching?
If what you’ve learned here about a one on one male life coach sounds good to you, then take the next step in making vital changes in yourself and in your life. Schedule a 90-minute initial session or free consultation.
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One-on-One Coaching
Frequently Asked Questions
This can be answered in many different ways. For those of you who have worked with a traditional therapist, you’ll quickly learn that coaching with me is a completely different experience. To put it as simply as I can, therapy is about understanding yourself and how you relate to the world. But as a coach, I’m equally interested in finding immediate solutions. We’ll discuss what ails you, and I’ll offer real, actionable solutions. This way, you’ll have a clear idea as to what steps you can take the moment we end our session.
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Most of the men I’ve worked with over the years have wanted a quick fix: a “magic wand” that could make all of their troubles disappear. Unfortunately, there is no magic wand, pill or secret sauce that’ll do that. On top of that, you probably don’t really need to be “fixed.” What you need is to learn a few things about yourself, how they relate to the way you were raised, how that impacts the way you interact with the world today, and some new skills to navigate more successfully.
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- 15-Minute consultation: FREE!
- 90-Minute Evaluation and Coaching Session: $595
- 50-Minute One-on-One Coaching Session: $395
- (12) 50-Minute One-on-One Coaching Sessions Package: $4740 (All sessions must be scheduled within a 12-week period. Non-refundable.)
- 3-Month Crisis Coaching Program for Men: Based on client’s needs.
- 50-Minute Couples Coaching Session: $495
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That’s a decision you’ll make. It’ll depend on a number of variables like:
- Do you feel the sessions are of value
- How long it takes to get to the heart of the matter and workable solutions
- Your budget
- Your goals for coaching
- Whether it’s time to transition to an alternative modality for your specific needs
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I’ve worked with both, but I prefer talking over the phone. It allows for more flexibility. People are busy, mobile, and can’t always find reliable wifi. As a one on one male life coach, I actually find that I tune in much better when I’m focused on a man’s voice. Traditional therapy is much more concerned with what’s happening “in the room.” With coaching, remarkably, much of that meta communication still comes through, as our conversation focuses on gaining clarity and creating a plan of action for change.
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