Spiritual Coach for Men

Spiritual Coaching

How I Got Here

I’m Wayne M. Levine. When I published my book, Hold On to Your N.U.T.s—The Relationship Manual for Men in 2007, my life looked completely different than it does today.

I was 24 years into a marriage that would end seven years later, I was constantly on edge about the size and health of my business, and I was becoming more and more exhausted trying to convince myself that I was happier than I knew I really was.

I felt alone in my struggle to make it all work—to be successful in business (whatever that meant,) to find joy in my life, to figure out my purpose, and to keep the anxiety and depression at bay. There were times when I was just barely hanging on.

 

Start Your Journey

But then came a day when, in a conversation after a yoga class, when I had the realization that would change my life. And that realization was this: I needed adventure in my life.

And as I began trying new things, going to new places, meeting new people, attending trainings, retreats and experiences of all kinds, I learned that I was now on a spiritual journey, one that would eventually lead me to becoming a spiritual coach for men.

I had not been raised with religion or any other notion of spirituality. I was the youngest of three boys, and my struggling, overworked and exhausted single mother didn’t have time to supervise all of us (more of my personal story can be found in my book Hold On to Your N.U.T.s–The Relationship Manual for Men). I knew that I could only rely on myself to “make shit happen.” But when things became difficult along the way, and just relying on my own counsel stopped working, I had no idea what to do next. It’s a terrifying place to be.

I’m grateful that some force within pushed me to discover that there was so much more for me in this life than I ever could have imagined.

My journey led me to destinations and teachers around the world. I visited prayer circles and shamans from many cultures. I learned about body work and energy practices. I attended plant medicine ceremonies, silent retreats and “spiritual” festivals. Finally, I brought my insights back to the men I coached individually and in groups. Soon, this spiritual component, which had been missing from my life for 50 years, became an integral part of my teaching and coaching practice. Whether or not you realize it, you could benefit from a spiritual coach for men.

I discovered what many before me had already discovered; all of life is a spiritual journey, if only we open our hearts and minds to experience it, to allow it.

Today, as a spiritual coach for men, I bring that spiritual perspective to my coaching, whether discussing how you might develop your own spiritual practice, or simply as a context in which we strategize how to best navigate your relationship with your partner, children, career, and life’s transitions.

How to Move Forward

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    Thoroughly explore this site.

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    If inspired, either request a free consult or dive in with your first session.

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    Trust your intuition and make your choice to work with me, if that feels right.

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    Begin your journey to discover, change, grow and become the man you want to be.

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If what you’ve learned here resonates in your heart and soul, and you’d like to take the next step in exploring your spiritual journey, then schedule a 90-minute initial session or free consultation.

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Divorce Coaching

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Crisis Coaching

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Couples Coaching

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Men's Groups

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Kind Words from the Men

Wayne is a knowledgeable and real guy who offers a sympathetic ear, but also a clear voice.

He doesn’t sit back on a couch and lob questions in some kind of one-sided way. Instead, you can have a real conversation with him, as I have for almost two years now in dealing with issues in my life. No doubt, Wayne listens well and knows his stuff, but he a...

-Adam (Minnesota)
I came to Wayne in 2010, a completely broken man.

With Wayne’s leadership, guidance, and sharing his real-life experiences, he’s helped me make my life better. I wouldn’t be this far along in my personal and business life if it wasn’t for the work that was encouraged by Wayne and the men...

-Jas (California)
If you’re going to pay to talk to someone...

…(which is worth every damn penny when it is someone like Wayne) you want to make sure the person is adept at understanding what you need in the given moment to really help shift your mindset and attitude for the better. Wayne does this so well. He gets yo...

- Dilan (Texas)
Working with Wayne has given me the tools to shift from being stuck in knee-jerk reactions...

… to what I saw as external circumstances, to being able to catch myself in the moment and gain insight into my internal dynamics. The ability to recognize, trust, and sit with my gut feelings has been a very freeing experience. As Wayne puts it, “it...

-Rob (Tennessee)
Working with Wayne has been a game-changer in my life.

I credit him with helping me achieve multiple breakthroughs over my years of consistently working with him. My wife and family agree that my on-going work with Wayne has made me a better man. If you need to make a change or move the ball in your relationships, w...

-Ty (Spain)
Wayne Levine is quite an impressive coach.

He is insightful, brilliant, and also shoots straight from the hip. He has helped me through not just a few jams of my own making. My favorite part of his counsel is that it really helps call me on my own bullshit, helps me see where I am part of the problem, ...

-Eric (Oregon)
Wayne has been helpful in getting me out of my head...

… when it comes to how I look at the dynamics of my own life, relationships, and work. Sometimes men can perceive life situations as insurmountable problems. I sure do. We need someone intuitive and wise to help us see the more helpful and expansive perspe...

-Jeff (Tennessee)
Wayne's knowledge and the BetterMen tools are an indispensable part of my daily life.

They help me show up as the man I want to be and guide me through life’s peaks and valleys. Every man should know these ideas and use these tools, period.

-Todd (California)
I came to find Wayne's practice at a time of extreme distress in my life.

With his help and guidance, I was able to move through that time positively and set myself up for a great life post crisis. Ten years later, I am still working with Wayne because his business adds value to my life even when I am not in crisis. Working with Wayne...

-Allen (Washington)
Wayne is a knowledgeable and real guy who offers a sympathetic ear, but also a clear voice.

He doesn’t sit back on a couch and lob questions in some kind of one-sided way. Instead, you can have a real conversation with him, as I have for almost two years now in dealing with issues in my life. No doubt, Wayne listens well and knows his stuff, but he also gives it to you straight—or at least helps you cut through your own crap and get clarity about what matters to you. Wayne has provided invaluable support and practical advice on my journey to becoming a better man.

-Adam (Minnesota)
I came to Wayne in 2010, a completely broken man.

With Wayne’s leadership, guidance, and sharing his real-life experiences, he’s helped me make my life better. I wouldn’t be this far along in my personal and business life if it wasn’t for the work that was encouraged by Wayne and the men of the BetterMen community. Wayne, simply put, I love you. My family and friends all love you because you showed me how to be a better husband, father, brother, and son. You showed me a path of spirituality. Today, I choose to live a life with gratitude, compassion, and self-care. Thank you, my brother.

-Jas (California)
If you’re going to pay to talk to someone...

…(which is worth every damn penny when it is someone like Wayne) you want to make sure the person is adept at understanding what you need in the given moment to really help shift your mindset and attitude for the better. Wayne does this so well. He gets you. And he’s onto it sometimes before you even say it, which cuts the fluff and saves your valuable time with him. Experienced. Wise. Kind. Present. No nonsense and loving. What’s not to like in having someone like that be your coach? Wayne is not your flashy “influencer” coach and therapist. He is the real deal. That’s who you want to talk to if you want to improve your life, relationships, and professional path. He’s got no agenda except to faithfully support you.

- Dilan (Texas)
Working with Wayne has given me the tools to shift from being stuck in knee-jerk reactions...

… to what I saw as external circumstances, to being able to catch myself in the moment and gain insight into my internal dynamics. The ability to recognize, trust, and sit with my gut feelings has been a very freeing experience. As Wayne puts it, “it’s an inside job.”

-Rob (Tennessee)
Working with Wayne has been a game-changer in my life.

I credit him with helping me achieve multiple breakthroughs over my years of consistently working with him. My wife and family agree that my on-going work with Wayne has made me a better man. If you need to make a change or move the ball in your relationships, work, or life, don’t hesitate, don’t delay, don’t put off what will start your revolution.

-Ty (Spain)
Wayne Levine is quite an impressive coach.

He is insightful, brilliant, and also shoots straight from the hip. He has helped me through not just a few jams of my own making. My favorite part of his counsel is that it really helps call me on my own bullshit, helps me see where I am part of the problem, and it is always said in a way that helps me see and change those things that maybe served me as a child, but that are no longer needed. He’s part mentor, part friend, with just a sprinkle of ornery to help get under my skin when I need it.  It should also be highlighted: he’s one of the smartest people I’ve ever had the pleasure of getting to know.

-Eric (Oregon)
Wayne has been helpful in getting me out of my head...

… when it comes to how I look at the dynamics of my own life, relationships, and work. Sometimes men can perceive life situations as insurmountable problems. I sure do. We need someone intuitive and wise to help us see the more helpful and expansive perspectives available to us. Wayne makes it simple, because it is quite simple. But it takes help to realize that! Thanks, Wayne.

-Jeff (Tennessee)
Wayne's knowledge and the BetterMen tools are an indispensable part of my daily life.

They help me show up as the man I want to be and guide me through life’s peaks and valleys. Every man should know these ideas and use these tools, period.

-Todd (California)
I came to find Wayne's practice at a time of extreme distress in my life.

With his help and guidance, I was able to move through that time positively and set myself up for a great life post crisis. Ten years later, I am still working with Wayne because his business adds value to my life even when I am not in crisis. Working with Wayne was one of the best decisions I made in the past ten years. I would not be where I am today without his help. 

-Allen (Washington)

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