Divorce Coach

Divorce Coaching

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If it’s your first divorce, you’ve been vaulted into a process you might know absolutely nothing about. But more importantly, you’re thrown into an emotional whirlwind that can turn your world upside down. As a result, you’re likely to make some bad choices. And that’s where I can help you.

I’m Wayne M. Levine. In addition to working as a divorce coach, I’ve also experienced my own. And I’ve learned a lot. Let’s just say, going through my divorce was the training I needed to help you navigate your own.

And it’s not enough to have an attorney on retainer. Yes, it’s important to have good legal counsel, especially if your divorce is likely to be contentious. But an attorney (and I must say here that some of my best friends are divorce attorneys—really) is only there to give you legal advice, to explain the legal process of divorce, just as your accountant or investment advisor is there to explain how your choices might impact your finances.

 

 

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But the choices are yours, and there is so much to consider. It is not your attorney’s job to make your decisions for you.

It’s not wise to simply hand over your decision-making to a divorce attorney, just as it isn’t wise to hand over your decision-making responsibilities to a doctor when there’s an illness. You must be an active participant. Why? Because only you can make the best choices for yourself and your family. Now, getting to a place of clarity to be able to make those good choices is where the coaching comes in.

As a divorce coach, my job is to guide you, help ground you, and give you an opportunity to work through your myriad feelings and challenges until you’re confident about your next steps. This may be a good time for you to watch a few of my videos about divorce. Divorce coaching can help you to understand the areas that we would cover in working together during this super challenging time in your life.

Your children are watching every move you make. No matter what your relationship is with their mother, she is still their mother. And you want to be held accountable to your thoughts, words and actions as you are confronted with the potentially endless array of challenges from her and her attorney. Separating one’s emotions about the divorce from the actual process of divorce is something most of us are not prepared to do.

So, it’s as important to have a divorce coach in your corner as it is to have your attorney. Now, many men will start penny pinching because they’re afraid of losing their hard-earned wealth in their divorce. Another reason to have the voice of experience and wisdom in your ear.

For many men, their “less than healthy” relationship with money will be challenged in this process. I’ll tell you what I have told many men who have gone through their own divorce: the money you spend with me will be a fraction of what you pay your attorney. And if you make the kind of poor choices men tend to make when drowning in their anger and grief, you’ll wish you had had a friendly and wise mentor along the way.

I hope your divorce proves to be uneventful. I really do. Unfortunately, feelings of betrayal, anger, and sadness can cause someone you once loved to act in ways that might surprise you. So even if you don’t anticipate serious complications, I still encourage you to consider engaging the services of a divorce coach. Divorce coaching can be cheap insurance, and, perhaps, a real lifeline in your hour of need.

How to Move Forward

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    Thoroughly explore this site.

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    If inspired, either request a free consult or dive in with your first session.

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    Trust your intuition and make your choice to work with me, if that feels right.

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    Begin your journey to discover, change, grow and become the man you want to be.

If divorce is on the table, are you ready to accept some serious, experienced support?

If what you’ve learned here sounds like it would benefit you, and you’d like to take the next step in considering your options at this challenging point in your life, then schedule a 90-minute initial session or free consultation.

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Kind Words from the Men

Working with Wayne has given me the tools to shift from being stuck in knee-jerk reactions...

… to what I saw as external circumstances, to being able to catch myself in the moment and gain insight into my internal dynamics. The ability to recognize, trust, and sit with my gut feelings has been a very freeing experience. As Wayne puts it, “it...

-Rob (Tennessee)
I came to Wayne in 2010, a completely broken man.

With Wayne’s leadership, guidance, and sharing his real-life experiences, he’s helped me make my life better. I wouldn’t be this far along in my personal and business life if it wasn’t for the work that was encouraged by Wayne and the men...

-Jas (California)
Working with Wayne has been a game-changer in my life.

I credit him with helping me achieve multiple breakthroughs over my years of consistently working with him. My wife and family agree that my on-going work with Wayne has made me a better man. If you need to make a change or move the ball in your relationships, w...

-Ty (Spain)
I came to find Wayne's practice at a time of extreme distress in my life.

With his help and guidance, I was able to move through that time positively and set myself up for a great life post crisis. Ten years later, I am still working with Wayne because his business adds value to my life even when I am not in crisis. Working with Wayne...

-Allen (Washington)
If you’re going to pay to talk to someone...

…(which is worth every damn penny when it is someone like Wayne) you want to make sure the person is adept at understanding what you need in the given moment to really help shift your mindset and attitude for the better. Wayne does this so well. He gets yo...

- Dilan (Texas)
Wayne is a knowledgeable and real guy who offers a sympathetic ear, but also a clear voice.

He doesn’t sit back on a couch and lob questions in some kind of one-sided way. Instead, you can have a real conversation with him, as I have for almost two years now in dealing with issues in my life. No doubt, Wayne listens well and knows his stuff, but he a...

-Adam (Minnesota)
Wayne Levine is quite an impressive coach.

He is insightful, brilliant, and also shoots straight from the hip. He has helped me through not just a few jams of my own making. My favorite part of his counsel is that it really helps call me on my own bullshit, helps me see where I am part of the problem, ...

-Eric (Oregon)
Wayne has been helpful in getting me out of my head...

… when it comes to how I look at the dynamics of my own life, relationships, and work. Sometimes men can perceive life situations as insurmountable problems. I sure do. We need someone intuitive and wise to help us see the more helpful and expansive perspe...

-Jeff (Tennessee)
Wayne's knowledge and the BetterMen tools are an indispensable part of my daily life.

They help me show up as the man I want to be and guide me through life’s peaks and valleys. Every man should know these ideas and use these tools, period.

-Todd (California)
Working with Wayne has given me the tools to shift from being stuck in knee-jerk reactions...

… to what I saw as external circumstances, to being able to catch myself in the moment and gain insight into my internal dynamics. The ability to recognize, trust, and sit with my gut feelings has been a very freeing experience. As Wayne puts it, “it’s an inside job.”

-Rob (Tennessee)
I came to Wayne in 2010, a completely broken man.

With Wayne’s leadership, guidance, and sharing his real-life experiences, he’s helped me make my life better. I wouldn’t be this far along in my personal and business life if it wasn’t for the work that was encouraged by Wayne and the men of the BetterMen community. Wayne, simply put, I love you. My family and friends all love you because you showed me how to be a better husband, father, brother, and son. You showed me a path of spirituality. Today, I choose to live a life with gratitude, compassion, and self-care. Thank you, my brother.

-Jas (California)
Working with Wayne has been a game-changer in my life.

I credit him with helping me achieve multiple breakthroughs over my years of consistently working with him. My wife and family agree that my on-going work with Wayne has made me a better man. If you need to make a change or move the ball in your relationships, work, or life, don’t hesitate, don’t delay, don’t put off what will start your revolution.

-Ty (Spain)
I came to find Wayne's practice at a time of extreme distress in my life.

With his help and guidance, I was able to move through that time positively and set myself up for a great life post crisis. Ten years later, I am still working with Wayne because his business adds value to my life even when I am not in crisis. Working with Wayne was one of the best decisions I made in the past ten years. I would not be where I am today without his help. 

-Allen (Washington)
If you’re going to pay to talk to someone...

…(which is worth every damn penny when it is someone like Wayne) you want to make sure the person is adept at understanding what you need in the given moment to really help shift your mindset and attitude for the better. Wayne does this so well. He gets you. And he’s onto it sometimes before you even say it, which cuts the fluff and saves your valuable time with him. Experienced. Wise. Kind. Present. No nonsense and loving. What’s not to like in having someone like that be your coach? Wayne is not your flashy “influencer” coach and therapist. He is the real deal. That’s who you want to talk to if you want to improve your life, relationships, and professional path. He’s got no agenda except to faithfully support you.

- Dilan (Texas)
Wayne is a knowledgeable and real guy who offers a sympathetic ear, but also a clear voice.

He doesn’t sit back on a couch and lob questions in some kind of one-sided way. Instead, you can have a real conversation with him, as I have for almost two years now in dealing with issues in my life. No doubt, Wayne listens well and knows his stuff, but he also gives it to you straight—or at least helps you cut through your own crap and get clarity about what matters to you. Wayne has provided invaluable support and practical advice on my journey to becoming a better man.

-Adam (Minnesota)
Wayne Levine is quite an impressive coach.

He is insightful, brilliant, and also shoots straight from the hip. He has helped me through not just a few jams of my own making. My favorite part of his counsel is that it really helps call me on my own bullshit, helps me see where I am part of the problem, and it is always said in a way that helps me see and change those things that maybe served me as a child, but that are no longer needed. He’s part mentor, part friend, with just a sprinkle of ornery to help get under my skin when I need it.  It should also be highlighted: he’s one of the smartest people I’ve ever had the pleasure of getting to know.

-Eric (Oregon)
Wayne has been helpful in getting me out of my head...

… when it comes to how I look at the dynamics of my own life, relationships, and work. Sometimes men can perceive life situations as insurmountable problems. I sure do. We need someone intuitive and wise to help us see the more helpful and expansive perspectives available to us. Wayne makes it simple, because it is quite simple. But it takes help to realize that! Thanks, Wayne.

-Jeff (Tennessee)
Wayne's knowledge and the BetterMen tools are an indispensable part of my daily life.

They help me show up as the man I want to be and guide me through life’s peaks and valleys. Every man should know these ideas and use these tools, period.

-Todd (California)

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