In my book Hold On to Your N.U.T.s.—The Relationship Manual for Men, I list eight BetterMen Tools. These tools are essential for a man to master in order to have the kinds of relationships he wants, to be happy, to have a good life.
One of the BetterMen Tools that’s important to be aware of in this divorce process is don’t argue.
Some of you may have had a lot of arguing going on in your relationship. It’s time to stop! You’re arguing with phantoms, you’re arguing with old feelings, you’re fighting with childhood wounds.
When you’re arguing you’re really not being present. And right now, you need to be present.
Founder/Director at BetterMen Coaching
For over 30 years, as a men’s life coach, I've coached men, couples, families, several weekly men’s groups, facilitated men's retreats, and wrote a best-selling relationship manual for men. All the while, I was trying to be a good dad while struggling with the pressures of running a business, and being in a marriage that didn’t suit me. What I've learned over the years I share through BetterMenCoaching.com. I invite you come and learn how you can actually become the man you've always wanted to be.
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