Forgiveness is really important. For instance, this is my second take on my forgiveness message because my cameraman Steven bumped the camera. Now, I could be angry about it and be stuck in it or I can just let it go and forgive him for having bumped the camera.
This skill of letting go and forgiving is key to you getting through this divorce with your sanity.
If you hold on to all the things that she did, to all the things that you did, to the things you didn’t do, and to all of the anger and the resentment you might have towards your parents for not teaching you the skills you needed to be in a healthy relationship, it’s just going to be painful, painful, painful, for you.
There is such power, joy, and peace in breathing, letting go, and forgiving.