BetterMen Tool No. 4 is Run the Sex And Romance Departments. Now, what does that mean?
Well, it means you want to have a great sex life. And it means that it’s time to stop blaming her for what’s not happening—at least until you take a look at what you’re doing to contribute, or to not contribute, to the kind of sex life you want.
One of the things you must do is close the back door to the sexual energy that’s going out into the world that’s not going to her. That means taking a look at how much flirting you’re doing, how much time you’re spending with porn and how often you’re masturbating.
If you’re not having the sex life you want, there’s work to be done to focus your energies toward your woman, romancing her, and building the trust and intimacy necessary for her to want to be with you.
Stop blaming her, look within, and do this critically important work for you, for her and for the relationship. Run the sex and romance departments and the two of you will be much happier together.