He doesn’t sit back on a couch and lob questions in some kind of one-sided way. Instead, you can have a real conversation with him, as I have for almost two years now in dealing with issues in my life. No doubt, Wayne listens well and knows his stuff, but he a...
Is this for me?
BetterMen Coaching is for you if you’re in your 40s to 60s, and you and your relationships are in need of adjustment. You’re a dad, married, or maybe married a couple of times, or dealing with the stages of divorce. You’ve been successful with career or business, but not so much at home. You’re in transition and feeling a little untethered, lost or lonely. You have women friends but not close, trusting relationships with men where you feel free to tell the truth without judgment.
You’ve already done some work trying to figure out what makes you tick. You’ve either done therapy, reading, meditation, retreats, grief work, plant medicine, deep introspection, writing, or some combination of the above. And, you are absolutely ready and committed to making important changes in you and your relationships, like with your partner, kids, parents, yourself, ego, money, and the world around you.
A life coach for men can change the course of your life and relationships. It’s all about you getting the honest feedback and guidance you need to become the best man you can be.
What Do You Need?
More often than not, men visit a coach after they’ve been affected by a divorce, an ultimatum, or some other painful loss. It’s unfortunate that we don’t always recognize our need for support earlier, but you’re here now. There’s no need to despair.
Whatever the current state of your relationship, real or imagined, it can be transformed if you want it to be. Now, before you dismiss this idea, you need to know that we have proof that a life coach for men could be your solution.
Countless men have come to BetterMen Coaching when they thought divorce was imminent. But many of them learned that it wasn’t the case. In fact, many were able to completely turn their relationships around once they made positive changes, becoming the best men they could be.
When men commit to being better men, fathers, and husbands, remarkable things can and do happen. But these changes take time, and there are many tests along the way.
That’s why the support of a life coach for men is so critically important.
Find out how BetterMen Coaching can help you to become the man you want to be for yourself and your relationships.
Countless men just like like you want to have close buddies to talk with. They want to share their hobbies and passions, or maybe they just want to get a beer! And yet so many of us remain isolated and lonely, unable to make those connections. Why is that?
The answer is shame.
Guilt is what you feel when you think you’ve done something wrong. Shame is what you feel when you think there’s something wrong with you. Shame is the feeling that keeps you from connecting with other men. And it’s their shame that keeps them isolated as well.
On some level, you think there’s something wrong with you, something that might keep other men from wanting to get know you. You feel that if other men really knew you on a deeper level, they wouldn’t like you. Is that what you think? A lot of men do.
When you connect with other men, you learn that we have so much more in common than you would have ever believed. We all experience fear, doubt, pain, inadequacy, loneliness, depression…the list goes on. Really, you’re not so unique!
Find out how normal you really are. When you have the courage to connect with a life coach for men, you’ll see your options growing, and your loneliness disappearing. Let BetterMen Coaching help you to create your circle of trusted friends.
In the days before the industrial revolution, it was the men who raised the boys. The entire community of men—brothers, uncles, grandfathers, friends, and neighbors—all worked together to teach the boys, discipline the boys, and initiate the boys into manhood.
Times have changed. We’re now socialized to believe that, as fathers, we’re supposed to do it alone, by ourselves. That’s just not the case. And it’s certainly not what our sons and daughters need.
We still need the support of other men to raise our boys…and our girls. There’s no shame in needing help. In fact, it’s a blessing to be of service to others. And when we ask another man—perhaps a more experienced father—for some advice, we’re taking care of our own kids.
Don’t let your ego (not wanting to appear weak or like a failure) to get in the way of your commitment (doing whatever is necessary to take care of your children.)
Countless men have received the wisdom from other fathers in our BetterMen community. You, too, can have that on-going support to be the best father you can be. All you have to do is ask.
Find out how BetterMen Coaching can help you to be the best father you can be so your sons and daughters have every opportunity to grow up to be happy, secure, and successful.
We all grow up with expectations, and they’re usually not our own.
In large part, we develop as men based upon the expectations of others, like our parents, teachers, clergy, and what popular culture happens to be selling us at the time.
Whether consciously and unconsciously, we make countless choices based upon false expectations. We then have to live with the results. Sometimes the results turn out okay. But more often than not, we find ourselves trapped in the outcomes of those choices.
For example, perhaps you’re feeling trapped in your current career. You had always hoped to be an actor, veterinarian, pilot, or teacher. But for one reason or another, whether it was someone’s judgment, economics, or low self-esteem, you made another choice, perhaps what then seemed to be a safer choice.
Years later, it’s clearer to you that you’re just not happy with your current career, and maybe you haven’t been happy with it for a very long time. You feel stuck.
When we feel stuck it’s because we can’t see the options. And until you share this with someone you can trust, and who can lead you to seeing your current situation from a whole new perspective, you’ll continue to feel frustrated, angry, depressed, and trapped. And that’s not good for you or your family.
You have the power to make changes in your career and any other aspect of your life. Find out how BetterMen Coaching can help you to see your options, and to offer the support you need to cast off those old expectations to become the man you truly want to be.
As men, we’re so focused on doing what we need to do, or what we think we’re supposed to do, that we very quickly lose sight of our goals, and find ourselves drowning in the tasks and anxieties of day-to-day life. Is this happening to you?
It can take you a long time to realize that this has happened in the first place. When’s the last time since you’ve felt a sense of freedom or happiness? When’s the last time you felt the joy of pursuing your passions? A lot of men get angry or depressed. But before you look for your salvation at the bottom of a prescription bottle or whiskey glass, let us suggest a more effective, long-term solution.
You need to get back into your power, to reclaim your autonomy. You can do that by reconnecting with who you are as a man. And to do that, you need the support and wisdom of men who know exactly how you feel.
It’s so difficult to imagine things being any different, or better, than they are right now. But you’re not the first man to struggle with these problems. We’re all in the same boat, just at different times. When you learn to accept the support of other good men, you’ll get back into your power, discover who you really are, and feel the joy in life that we all deserve to experience.
Find out how BetterMen Coaching can help you become a man who finds joy in his relationships and his life.
You’re angry. You’re hurting. Whatever is causing you to feel anxious, bothered, and confused, your remedy can be found in the circle of men.
Why? Because we’re all more alike than you ever could have imagined. The details of our lives may vary from man to man, but what we experience and how we process those experiences are universal.
The purpose of developing a relationship with a men’s coach or men’s group is to give you the guidance, support, advice, and kick in the ass you need to make important changes in your life. These changes have the power to affect you and everyone around you.
When you develop trust and are able to receive wisdom man-to-man, a lot of things begin to happen. You develop a clearer vision of the man you want to be. You see options that had never occurred to you. You build better relationships. You get the answers to questions that have been troubling you for years.
Whatever it is, however badly you feel in this moment, everything will change when you follow our advice: trust the men.
When you trust BetterMen Coaching to help support you and hold you accountable, you will become a better man, father, husband, and leader. A life coach for men could be your ticket to a happier, healthier life.
About
Get To Know Wayne M. Levine
I’m Wayne M. Levine, men’s life coach, best-selling author, and founder of BetterMen Coaching. In my over 30 years of life coaching for me, I’ve seen myself evolve a number of times.
As I helped and learned from the men around me, I also learned about myself. Step by step, I began to make changes in my own life which ultimately led me on a grand adventure—an adventure that’s detailed on this very site. The best part? I can now use everything I’ve experienced to help other men on their own adventures.
Kind Words from the Men
Wayne is a knowledgeable and real guy who offers a sympathetic ear, but also a clear voice.
-Adam (Minnesota)
I came to find Wayne's practice at a time of extreme distress in my life.
With his help and guidance, I was able to move through that time positively and set myself up for a great life post crisis. Ten years later, I am still working with Wayne because his business adds value to my life even when I am not in crisis. Working with Wayne...
-Allen (Washington)
Wayne has been helpful in getting me out of my head...
… when it comes to how I look at the dynamics of my own life, relationships, and work. Sometimes men can perceive life situations as insurmountable problems. I sure do. We need someone intuitive and wise to help us see the more helpful and expansive perspe...
-Jeff (Tennessee)
Wayne's knowledge and the BetterMen tools are an indispensable part of my daily life.
They help me show up as the man I want to be and guide me through life’s peaks and valleys. Every man should know these ideas and use these tools, period.
-Todd (California)
Working with Wayne has been a game-changer in my life.
I credit him with helping me achieve multiple breakthroughs over my years of consistently working with him. My wife and family agree that my on-going work with Wayne has made me a better man. If you need to make a change or move the ball in your relationships, w...
-Ty (Spain)
Wayne Levine is quite an impressive coach.
He is insightful, brilliant, and also shoots straight from the hip. He has helped me through not just a few jams of my own making. My favorite part of his counsel is that it really helps call me on my own bullshit, helps me see where I am part of the problem, ...
-Eric (Oregon)
If you’re going to pay to talk to someone...
…(which is worth every damn penny when it is someone like Wayne) you want to make sure the person is adept at understanding what you need in the given moment to really help shift your mindset and attitude for the better. Wayne does this so well. He gets yo...
- Dilan (Texas)
I came to Wayne in 2010, a completely broken man.
With Wayne’s leadership, guidance, and sharing his real-life experiences, he’s helped me make my life better. I wouldn’t be this far along in my personal and business life if it wasn’t for the work that was encouraged by Wayne and the men...
-Jas (California)
Working with Wayne has given me the tools to shift from being stuck in knee-jerk reactions...
… to what I saw as external circumstances, to being able to catch myself in the moment and gain insight into my internal dynamics. The ability to recognize, trust, and sit with my gut feelings has been a very freeing experience. As Wayne puts it, “it...
-Rob (Tennessee)
Wayne is a knowledgeable and real guy who offers a sympathetic ear, but also a clear voice.
He doesn’t sit back on a couch and lob questions in some kind of one-sided way. Instead, you can have a real conversation with him, as I have for almost two years now in dealing with issues in my life. No doubt, Wayne listens well and knows his stuff, but he also gives it to you straight—or at least helps you cut through your own crap and get clarity about what matters to you. Wayne has provided invaluable support and practical advice on my journey to becoming a better man.
-Adam (Minnesota)
I came to find Wayne's practice at a time of extreme distress in my life.
With his help and guidance, I was able to move through that time positively and set myself up for a great life post crisis. Ten years later, I am still working with Wayne because his business adds value to my life even when I am not in crisis. Working with Wayne was one of the best decisions I made in the past ten years. I would not be where I am today without his help.
-Allen (Washington)
Wayne has been helpful in getting me out of my head...
… when it comes to how I look at the dynamics of my own life, relationships, and work. Sometimes men can perceive life situations as insurmountable problems. I sure do. We need someone intuitive and wise to help us see the more helpful and expansive perspectives available to us. Wayne makes it simple, because it is quite simple. But it takes help to realize that! Thanks, Wayne.
-Jeff (Tennessee)
Wayne's knowledge and the BetterMen tools are an indispensable part of my daily life.
They help me show up as the man I want to be and guide me through life’s peaks and valleys. Every man should know these ideas and use these tools, period.
-Todd (California)
Working with Wayne has been a game-changer in my life.
I credit him with helping me achieve multiple breakthroughs over my years of consistently working with him. My wife and family agree that my on-going work with Wayne has made me a better man. If you need to make a change or move the ball in your relationships, work, or life, don’t hesitate, don’t delay, don’t put off what will start your revolution.
-Ty (Spain)
Wayne Levine is quite an impressive coach.
He is insightful, brilliant, and also shoots straight from the hip. He has helped me through not just a few jams of my own making. My favorite part of his counsel is that it really helps call me on my own bullshit, helps me see where I am part of the problem, and it is always said in a way that helps me see and change those things that maybe served me as a child, but that are no longer needed. He’s part mentor, part friend, with just a sprinkle of ornery to help get under my skin when I need it. It should also be highlighted: he’s one of the smartest people I’ve ever had the pleasure of getting to know.
-Eric (Oregon)
If you’re going to pay to talk to someone...
…(which is worth every damn penny when it is someone like Wayne) you want to make sure the person is adept at understanding what you need in the given moment to really help shift your mindset and attitude for the better. Wayne does this so well. He gets you. And he’s onto it sometimes before you even say it, which cuts the fluff and saves your valuable time with him. Experienced. Wise. Kind. Present. No nonsense and loving. What’s not to like in having someone like that be your coach? Wayne is not your flashy “influencer” coach and therapist. He is the real deal. That’s who you want to talk to if you want to improve your life, relationships, and professional path. He’s got no agenda except to faithfully support you.
- Dilan (Texas)
I came to Wayne in 2010, a completely broken man.
With Wayne’s leadership, guidance, and sharing his real-life experiences, he’s helped me make my life better. I wouldn’t be this far along in my personal and business life if it wasn’t for the work that was encouraged by Wayne and the men of the BetterMen community. Wayne, simply put, I love you. My family and friends all love you because you showed me how to be a better husband, father, brother, and son. You showed me a path of spirituality. Today, I choose to live a life with gratitude, compassion, and self-care. Thank you, my brother.
-Jas (California)
Working with Wayne has given me the tools to shift from being stuck in knee-jerk reactions...
… to what I saw as external circumstances, to being able to catch myself in the moment and gain insight into my internal dynamics. The ability to recognize, trust, and sit with my gut feelings has been a very freeing experience. As Wayne puts it, “it’s an inside job.”
-Rob (Tennessee)
Are You Ready to Become a Better Man?
If what you’ve learned here sounds good to you, and you’d like to take the next step in making vital changes in yourself and in your life, then schedule a 90-minute initial session or free consultation. See for yourself how a life coach for men can help you.
Making Good Men Better
Get Out of the Problem and into the Solution
Men all want the same things.
- We want to feel joy and passion.
- We want to be happy in our relationships.
- We want to feel of value, and spend our days making money in a way that fulfills us.
- We want to not be so angry, jealous, and resentful.
- We want to know that we’re good enough as men, fathers, and husbands.
- And, we want to feel the confidence necessary to live without doubt and fear.
With more than 30 years experience in guiding men through all conceivable life challenges, I can coach you through your problems, and help you find the solutions to become the happy and successful man you want to be.
