Nobody wants to get divorced. Nobody wants to go through a divorce. Nobody wants to feel the pain. I mean, it sucks. And yet, it’s an opportunity, an opportunity to learn about yourself.
You’re in a divorce because you’re you, because you made the choice to be with the woman you are with, because this is your path.
There’s something in it for you if you can stop being resistant to looking within, acknowledging your contribution, and embracing the multitude of lessons to be learned and insight to discover.
Stop resisting this process. Embrace it. Get what you can get out of it and it will make you a better, happier, and stronger man.